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Supporting My Current Student

Welcome, parents and families! We're thrilled you are taking an interest in your student's college experience and are excited to partner with you in supporting their journey. This can be both an exciting and challenging time for you and your student. At Widener, you'll find support to help guide you through the process and help your student thrive.

Make Time for Important Conversations with Your Student

🍂 FALL 🍂

  • How are they settling in? Are classes going well? What about their relationships with roommates, classmates, and friends? Do they have a support system in place?
  • Are they familiar with campus resources? Academic Advising & Mentoring Programs, Counseling & Psychology Services, Career Design & Development, and so much more are available to provide support.
  • Are they finding their people? Peer support systems are essential. Have they made any new friends this semester? Have they joined any clubs and organizations or sought other ways to expand their campus network?
  • Are they active on campus? In addition to a rich variety of student programming, fall is an extra special time for athletic events, the High-Impact Practices Fair, International Education Week, INSPIRE Leadership Conference, and our annual Homecoming & Family Weekend! And, you're invited too!
  • Are they ready for the spring semester? Students and parents should be aware when the time comes to register for courses for the following semester. Our Academic Calendar has all the important dates and events to look out for so you can be ready before the time comes.
  • How are they settling in? Are classes going well? What about their relationships with roommates, classmates, and friends? Do they have a support system in place?
  • Are they familiar with campus resources? Academic Advising & Mentoring Programs, Counseling & Psychology Services, Career Design & Development, and so much more are available to provide support.
  • Are they finding their people? Peer support systems are essential. Have they made any new friends this semester? Have they joined any clubs and organizations or sought other ways to expand their campus network?
  • Are they active on campus? In addition to a rich variety of student programming, fall is an extra special time for athletic events, the High-Impact Practices Fair, International Education Week, INSPIRE Leadership Conference, and our annual Homecoming & Family Weekend! And, you're invited too!
  • Are they ready for the spring semester? Students and parents should be aware when the time comes to register for courses for the following semester. Our Academic Calendar has all the important dates and events to look out for so you can be ready before the time comes.

❄️ WINTER ❄️

  • Winter signals the end of the semester — and finals! Are they feeling prepared for exams? Are they managing stress with the help of our on-campus stress breaker activities? Do they have a quiet study spot? Ask if there are ways you can provide support.
  • Have honest conversations and be a listening ear. This is a time of transition. Make space to listen. How are they feeling about life at college? How are they feeling within themselves? Are they aware of the resources available to them to support their overall well-being?
  • What are they most excited for academically? Are they still jazzed about their chosen major and affiliated coursework or is it time to explore other options? Encourage them to check in with their academic advisor, Career Design & Development, and/or the Exploratory Studies department can offer great support.
  • Prepare for winter break and the spring semester. Do you need to set expectations as they prepare to head back home? Dates for course registration as well as other important events can be found in our Academic Calendar.
  • Winter signals the end of the semester — and finals! Are they feeling prepared for exams? Are they managing stress with the help of our on-campus stress breaker activities? Do they have a quiet study spot? Ask if there are ways you can provide support.
  • Have honest conversations and be a listening ear. This is a time of transition. Make space to listen. How are they feeling about life at college? How are they feeling within themselves? Are they aware of the resources available to them to support their overall well-being?
  • What are they most excited for academically? Are they still jazzed about their chosen major and affiliated coursework or is it time to explore other options? Encourage them to check in with their academic advisor, Career Design & Development, and/or the Exploratory Studies department can offer great support.
  • Prepare for winter break and the spring semester. Do you need to set expectations as they prepare to head back home? Dates for course registration as well as other important events can be found in our Academic Calendar.

🌸 SPRING 🌸

  • Engage with academic spotlight events. Every spring, students present academic research and other projects through honors week and student project day. Is your student presenting? Either way, consider joining for an afternoon of inspiration.
  • Prepare for spring break. Do they have plans? Consider traveling and volunteering with our Alternative Spring Break program or some other enriching experience.
  • Spring festivities can mean drinking holidays, like St. Patrick's Day, Cinco de Mayo, and commencement. Explore ways to celebrate without high-risk drinking.
  • Preparing for the fall semester. The spring semester might mean the end of the school year, but there is still the beginning of the next year to look forward to as well. The dates for course registration as well as other important events can be found in our Academic Calendar.
  • Make a plan for summer. This is a great time for your student to build their resume and consider finding a summer internship, participate in undergraduate student research, complete summer coursework, or travel abroad for study or service. Summer is a great time for your student to earn an income to help cover extra expenses for the semester ahead. Career Design & Development offers access to helpful tools for job exploration, in addition to support generating resumes and cover letters and holding mock interviews. 
  • Engage with academic spotlight events. Every spring, students present academic research and other projects through honors week and student project day. Is your student presenting? Either way, consider joining for an afternoon of inspiration.
  • Prepare for spring break. Do they have plans? Consider traveling and volunteering with our Alternative Spring Break program or some other enriching experience.
  • Spring festivities can mean drinking holidays, like St. Patrick's Day, Cinco de Mayo, and commencement. Explore ways to celebrate without high-risk drinking.
  • Preparing for the fall semester. The spring semester might mean the end of the school year, but there is still the beginning of the next year to look forward to as well. The dates for course registration as well as other important events can be found in our Academic Calendar.
  • Make a plan for summer. This is a great time for your student to build their resume and consider finding a summer internship, participate in undergraduate student research, complete summer coursework, or travel abroad for study or service. Summer is a great time for your student to earn an income to help cover extra expenses for the semester ahead. Career Design & Development offers access to helpful tools for job exploration, in addition to support generating resumes and cover letters and holding mock interviews. 

☀️ SUMMER ☀️

  • Discuss the year in review. How was their experience with the fall and spring semester? Discuss any goals, challenges, or highlights. This can provide helpful insight into your child's academic and personal growth, while also helping you to understand any challenges or concerns your student may have. 
  • Have you noticed any changes in your student? This is completely normal. Your student is going through major transitions. But it's important to keep an eye out for signs of distress and ensure your student has the resources they need.
  • Explore new interests and hobbies. Has your student developed any new passions or interests—whether from a classroom subject, club, or experience? Are there ways you can explore the interest together over the summer? Inquiring about shared interests can help you stay connected with your student and make memorable experiences together.
  • Review the semester ahead. Are they signed up for classes and still on track? What are they most excited about? Are they considering pursuing a co-op, internship, or study abroad experience? 
  • Discuss the year in review. How was their experience with the fall and spring semester? Discuss any goals, challenges, or highlights. This can provide helpful insight into your child's academic and personal growth, while also helping you to understand any challenges or concerns your student may have. 
  • Have you noticed any changes in your student? This is completely normal. Your student is going through major transitions. But it's important to keep an eye out for signs of distress and ensure your student has the resources they need.
  • Explore new interests and hobbies. Has your student developed any new passions or interests—whether from a classroom subject, club, or experience? Are there ways you can explore the interest together over the summer? Inquiring about shared interests can help you stay connected with your student and make memorable experiences together.
  • Review the semester ahead. Are they signed up for classes and still on track? What are they most excited about? Are they considering pursuing a co-op, internship, or study abroad experience? 

Tips for Supporting Your College Student Through Common Challenges

It's completely normal for college students to hit a few bumps in the road when it comes to their academics. Here are a few ways you can also help:

  • Encourage your student to reach out for help: Professors, tutoring services, writing and math centers, and student mentors are all here to help. Encourage your student to take advantage of these academic and career support resources.
  • Check in on their mental health: Sometimes academic decline can be a sign of underlying mental health concerns. Talk to your student about their mental health. Make sure your student knows that it's okay to seek help and encourage them to take advantage of counseling and psychological services if needed.
  • Talk about their goals: Remind your student why they're in college and what they're working towards. By focusing on their goals, they'll be more motivated to stay on top of their work. Their academic advisor can help support academic goals and Widener's Career Design & Development team can help explore career goals.
  • Help them stay organized: A little bit of structure can go a long way. Help your student create a study schedule, prioritize their assignments, and stay on track.
  • Be their cheerleader: College can be tough! It's important to be a positive, encouraging voice in your student's life.

College can be a stressful time, and many students experience emotional distress at some point during their college career. As a parent of a college student, it's important to be aware of the signs of emotional distress that your student may experience.

Signs may include:

  • Changes in mood or behavior
  • Academic decline
  • Physical symptoms
  • Substance abuse
  • Social withdrawal
  • Suicidal thoughts or actions.

If you notice any of these signs in your student, it's important to offer support and encourage them to seek help from resources on campus, such as counseling services or peer support groups. By being aware and taking action, you can help your child navigate the challenges of college and their emotional and physical well-being.

Here are a few resources to help navigate difficult discussions:

It's perfectly normal for college students to change their majors. In fact, it's often a sign that they are exploring their interests and finding their true passions! Rest assured, changing majors doesn't necessarily mean they will experience setbacks. It's important to have supportive conversations with your student about their reasons for wanting to switch majors and help them navigate this transition and thrive in a new field of study.

  • Listen to their reasons for wanting to change majors: Hear them out and ask judgement-free questions that encourage them to explain their thought process.
  • Help them explore their options: Encourage your student to utilize resources on campus such as Exploratory Studies, Career Design & Development and/or their current academic advisor to explore different majors that align with their interests and strengths. You'll also find career outcomes and student stories on our program pages to help support your student's research.
  • Discuss the implications of changing majors: Changing majors can sometimes (but not always!) add additional time and cost to their college education. Their academic advisor can help determine if additional time would be needed and if so, we encourage you to discuss these implications openly and honestly with your student.
  • Offer support and encouragement: Your student may feel uncertain or overwhelmed. Offer your support and encourage them to make the decision that is best for them.
  • Trust their judgment: Ultimately, your student knows what is best for them. Support them in their decision, even if it differs from your own ideas or expectations.

Changing majors can lead to new opportunities and personal growth for your student. With your support and guidance, your student can navigate this process successfully.

As a parent of a college student, you can play an important role in helping your child manage their finances. With your guidance and support, your child can learn to make smart financial decisions, manage their finances effectively, and avoid financial stress during college and beyond.

How you can help your child manage their finances:

  • Create a budget together.
  • Encourage smart spending.
  • Help them open a student bank account.
  • Suggest finding a part-time job. (We offer many on campus jobs!)
  • Discuss responsible credit card and loan use.

When it comes to the cost of a college education, it's important you and your student are taking advantage of financial aid. The first step is completing the FAFSA to determine if your student is eligible to receive state, federal, or Widener need-based aid. You can also encourage your student to apply for scholarships and grants and work with our Student Financial Services office for additional support.

Some college students experience homesickness and difficulty finding a sense of belonging on campus, especially during their first year away from home. As a parent, there are several ways you can help your child cope with these emotions while showing them love and support and encouraging them to get engaged on campus to find their community.

  • Let your child know that feeling homesick is normal, and that many students go through the same experience. Listen to them with empathy and let them know that you understand how they feel.
  • Encourage your child to get involved on campus can be a great way to help them feel a sense of belonging and make new friends. From student clubs and organizations, to athletics and recreation, to leadership and civic engagement opportunities, there are countless ways to get involved at Widener!
  • Keep in touch with them through regular communication. You can send care packages, plan a fun weekend exploring areas around campus like Philadelphia's restaurant, sports, and museum scenes, or welcome them home for family meals. Checking in with your child regularly and being available to talk can make a big difference.
  • Avoid converting their room right away. Your college student wants to feel supported through their changing experiences, while also feeling a sense of familiarity at home.
  • Encourage your child to practice self-care by getting enough sleep, eating healthily, and exercising regularly. This can help them feel better both physically and emotionally. Remember that while it's natural to want to rescue your child from their homesickness, it's important to let them work through it on their own. Encourage them to seek help from resources on campus, such as counseling services or peer support groups.

With your love, support, and encouragement, your child can overcome homesickness and thrive in their new environment.

Even though roommate issues can be common for college students, they can still be stressful. If your college student is having issues with their roommate, listen to their concerns, offer advice if they ask for it, and encourage them to communicate openly with their roommate. If issues persist, suggest that they talk with their resident assistant (RA).

Remind your student that they're not alone and that these things happen—and with a little effort, they can work through it and have a positive living experience. To ensure they're doing their part to maintaining a positive living environment, we've created a guide for talking to your student about being a good roommate and neighbor.

As a varsity athlete, your student may find difficulties balancing academic and athletic priorities. To avoid creeping pressure and burn-out, we encourage you to be a listening ear and offer emotional support and guidance when needed.

If academic performance is slipping, encourage your student to seek available academic resources such as academic tutoring, study groups, and 1:1 office hours with their professors. Their coach and teammates are also helpful resources.

At Widener, our athletes have access to Check Up from the Neck Up—a program focused on their well-being as well as a dedicated room known as Health, Unity, and Belonging, or the H.U.B. – which is located in the Schwartz Athletic Center. The H.U.B. is designated to and designed for athletes and coaches to be used as a space to relax, grab a snack, and take a mental health break.

Finally, remember to offer words of encouragement and celebrate their successes both on and off the field. Remind them that their worth is so much more than their athletic or academic achievements and its okay to take a break to prioritize their personal well-being.

There's a ton happening on campus—all. the. time.–while exciting it can also create difficulties with time management and knowing when to say no. Here are some tips to help your student manage their time and avoid the FOMO trap:

  • Encourage them prioritize: Help your student identify their most important tasks, so they can focus on what really matters.
  • Suggest they create a schedule: A schedule can be a powerful tool for managing time effectively. Blocking out time for study and fun and sticking to it can make all the difference.
  • Remind them it's okay to say "no": Sometimes saying "no" to certain activities or events can free up time for more important things. Let your student know it's okay to say "no" if they need to focus on their studies or other commitments.
  • Encourage them to take breaks: Taking breaks is crucial for maintaining productivity and mental health. Encourage your student make time to do things they enjoy to recharge their batteries.

With these tips, you can help your student navigate the exciting world of college without feeling overwhelmed by the fear of missing out.

Help Your Student Make a Plan to Reach Their Goals

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Career Exploration

Support your college student as they explore career options by encouraging them to seek career counseling services, attend job fairs, and network with professionals. Help them research industries and companies that match their passions and talents, and provide opportunities for relevant experience through internships or volunteering. Listen to their goals and interests and encourage informed decisions.

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Co-Ops & Internships

Not only do real-world work experiences provide valuable on-the-job training, but they can also help your student build their professional network and gain a competitive edge in the job market. Encourage your student to research potential opportunities and work with their professors and the Career Design & Development team to find a placement that aligns with their interests and goals.

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Study Abroad

Studying abroad can be an incredible opportunity for your college-aged student to experience new cultures, gain a global perspective, and develop important life skills. Encourage your student to talk to advisors and/or the Center for Civic & Global Engagement team and connect with students who have studied abroad to make an informed decision. You can offer support and guidance throughout the process, by helping them explore funding options like scholarships, grants, and financial aid, and exploring different programs. With careful consideration and planning, your student can embark on a life-changing adventure and come back with a wealth of knowledge and experiences.

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Pursue a Graduate Degree

In addition to their academic advisors, you can be a great support system for your student if they're interested in pursuing graduate school. Widener also makes it easy to pursue an accelerated graduate degree through our 4+1 Accelerated Advantage program—saving your student time and cost. Widener graduates may also be eligible to receive an alumni discount on the majority of our graduate program offerings. If they know early on that they're interested in attending a medical or law school, pre-professional pathways could be a great choice to hone skills and qualifications as an undergraduate. 

Encourage your student to research different programs and talk to their academic advisor and current grad students or professors in their field. They can also find support for navigating the application process, including personal statements and letters of recommendations, through Career Design & Development. Ultimately, just be there for them as they make this important decision. With your help, they'll be well on their way to achieving their academic and career goals!

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